 On November 1, 1999, my husband, Jeff, was diagnosed with scleroderma and our life changed, as we knew it. We had a seven-month-old son and had been married just over two years. Jeff was just twenty-three years old and had been seeing doctors for over a year trying to find out why he was having symptoms such as his hands and feet turning a blackish color in cold temperatures as well as having terrible pain throughout his body every day.
When his family doctor sent him to University of Michigan for further diagnosis, that is where our journey with scleroderma began. We were told that Jeff had a very fast progression of the disease. The skin on his arms, legs, chest and back were already tightening. He also was affected in his stomach and throat, which gave him acid reflux problems, and showed signs of damage to his lungs (though minimal). Jeff lost approximately forty pounds in a matter of a few months and could not even drink a sip of water without pain in his chest.
On the day Jeff was diagnosed, he was told to go home and quit his job as a cabinet builder and finisher, and that he had approximately five years before the disease could possibly kill him. As you can imagine, this felt like someone just hit our family with a truck. How could this happen to us? Well, we met the people that I say saved my husband's life. The doctors at the University of Michigan worked very hard to present us with all of the options, and Jeff was offered a chance to participate in the stem cell transplant research program. After reviewing all our choices, we realized that this was our only option to have a chance at spending our life together as we had planned.
On March 3, 2000, after many tests and a lot of hospital visits, Jeff was administered the stem cells that were going to change our lives. I am happy to say that Jeff is now seventeen months past his transplant and to look at him, you would never know he was sick. He is working full time and living his life as he had always planned. We are very grateful that we were given the opportunity to take part in the stem cell research and that it was successful.
Now my two year old can play with his dad and enjoy it! I would recommend that anyone who thinks that they may have this disease, seek out a rheumatologist and have the tests done. There is hope and the more people who know about it, the better. |
